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Dear Patients,
I created this forum to welcome any questions you have on the topic of infertility, IVF, conception, testing, evaluation, or any related topics. I do my best to answer all questions in less than 24 hours. I know your question is important and, in many cases, I will answer within just a few hours. Thank you for taking the time to trust me with your concern.
– Geoffrey Sher, MD
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Hello. My husband and I live in TN but are considering adopting some embryos stored at your facility. What is your cost for ivf transfer of those embryos if we decide to come to New York and have the transfer done there rather than transporting the embryos here.
Thank you for your time!
I’m turning 47 years old and my AMH is 0.9. My periods are regular (every 28 days) and I am healthy. I have two biological children that I carried. I know you recommended using donor eggs but I have heard of women getting pregnant naturally at my age and I would like to try with my own eggs. I realize it’s rare, but it has happened and I am sure with a bit of fertility help or drugs I could become pregnant? I am wondering what protocol would you try in my case for IUI? Thank you very much.
Mackenzie
How do you handle repeated failed fertilization? Does/can estrogen/prog before the cycle make this worse? We have already added calcium ioniphore.
Me realize una transferencia de embrión con pruebas genéticas preimplantation ales me pusieron intralipidos unas días antes de la transferencia la implantación fue un éxito y todo iba perfecto hasta la semana 6 y 3 días empecé a sangrar fui ah emergencias y me encontraron un hematoma subcorial muy chiquito pero la bebe estaba bien de tamaño y su latido era el normal dos días después en la clínica me hicieron el ultrasonido y estaba todo muy bien pero el hematoma seguía ahy pero chiquito me dijeron que no había ningún problema con el hematoma que no nesecitava hacer reposo ese día que vimos a mi bebe me pusieron otra vez intralipidos, tres días después estaba sangrando demasiado fui a la clínica de nuevo y la bebe estaba normal de tamaño y su latido estaba normal pero ya había bajado y me dijeron que la estaba perdiendo, la hemorragia seguía y más y con coágulos grandes, no entiendo qué pasó por que se vino esa hemorragia supongo que fue por el hematoma pero por que si no era tan grande mi pregunta es cree usted que los intralipidos causaron que el hematoma se desangrara o tal vez el seguir tomando una aspirina bebe, Cuado tenía hematoma? Me gustaría saber su opinión por que ya solo me queda otro hembrioncito
Hello,
I am reaching out to inquire about the availability and effectiveness of Sildenafil Vaginal Suppositories.
My wife is currently consulting with her doctor regarding a concern with endometrial thinning. Her doctor recommended the use of Sildenafil in the form of a vaginal suppository. Unfortunately, this specific product is not available in our country.
Could you please advise me on the following:
1. Are these suppositories effective for treating endometrial thinning?
2. If they are effective, can I purchase Sildenafil Vaginal Suppositories through you and you ship it to our forwarding mail address in NY?
Thank you very much for your assistance. Your prompt response is greatly appreciated as we explore treatment options for my wife.
Hi Dr. Sher,
I am 47 with an AMH of 0.9. Is there any possibility I could get pregnant with my own eggs doing IUI?
Alison
Dear Dr Sher Geoffrey,
I have been through 5 failed IVF rounds.
Most of the time my eggs are degenerative, empty or abnormal.
I have a 2 year old daughter, concieved naturally, only in 2 months of trying.
Now I am diagnosed with low AMH, so the fertility doctor didn’t want to wait any longer.
Now my fertility suggested to do a managed natural ivf cycle.
Do you think priming with estrogen, testosterone and omnitrop will have a better outcome?
How can I improve my egg quality, I am ready to do whatever it takes! We DONT opt for egg donation, it’s with my own eggs or we stay happy with the 3 of us.
Thank you in advance!
Sherella
Cómo puedo empezar me gustaría saber uales son las condiciones o no hay condiciones
Tuve una inseminacion artificial intrauterina el 23 de abril, para el 7 de mayo mi nivel de hcg era 15.1 y hoy 9 de mayo 24.3 el aumento es normal o puede haber algún problema?
Hi Dr Geoffrey Sher,
By means of introductions, I’m Natalie and I’m struggling to find answers on my IVF journey. My endless research to try and find answers has led me to your page (after you answered another persons struggles with IVF, thank you) and I was wondering if you could help me as I’m at a lost with knowing the right next step?
I’m currently 31 years old and I found out the day after my honeymoon that I have an AMH of 1.4pmol. I have stage 1 endometriosis and my AFC has been 4-15 upon every scan. Because of my low amh and my struggles to get pregnant naturally, I started my IVF journey. I’ve currently had 2 cycles:
1) short protocol Jan 2024 (300IUI menopur) – I started with 15 follicles which led to 3 follicles around day 5. I continued to day 8 where 4 follicles were 10-21mm. I took the trigger on day 8. At egg collection I got 4 eggs, 3 mature, all fertilised, all made it to day 3 ( 1 at 8 cell, 1 at 7 cell, 1 at 5 cell). I got no embryos on day 5 as they all slowed down. I was told they were highly unlikely to progress in day 6 so I could implant my morulas which I did but with no success. I was told that my eggs are likely poor quality due to slow progress from day 1 to day 3.
2) long protocol May 2024 (450 IUI menopur). This time I started with 10 follicles, day 7 only 4 responded but all approximately same size 8-12mm. Day 12 all 4 follicles were 18-21mm. Upon egg collection I had 3 empty follicles, 1 egg collected which was immature.
As you can imagine, I’m devastated. I was holding out hope as my twin sister has a lower amh and has responded well to all protocols given and is now currently pregnant after 2 cycles. I’ve been to Greece to take several tests to rule out what might be going wrong including: nk killer cells, thrombophilia, karotype, sperm dna fragmentation, uterine microbiome and x-fragile. All tests come back normal. I’m either being told I’m unfortunate or I have bad quality eggs and should look at donor eggs. What is your thoughts on this? I want to try one last time but I just don’t know what to do. In London, the protocol seems defined from the outset with no variation mid cycle and I don’t seem to fit the one size fits all. I’m not sure if the high dose medication is affecting the quality of my eggs? I was told just yesterday that chances of having my own baby is less than 5% and my twin got lucky. I’m just lost and desperate to be a mum and don’t know which way to turn next, can you help me?
Thank you in advance. Sorry for all the information.
Natalie
Hello,
What are your thoughts about using prednisone and/or prograv for a FET with donor eggs?
Hello,
I recently had my first FET ever with a PGT tested normal donor egg embryo. I had such high hopes, but it unfortunately did not stick. When my lining was checked a week before the FET, it was 8.7. Do you think this was still too thin?
For this previous FET I was on 2mg estrace taken orally 3Xday and vaginally 1Xday. For progesterone, I was doing suppositories 2Xday and the PIO shot once per day. I was also taking baby aspirin and low dose naltrexone. I’m 44, normal weight and BMI and in good health. I do have an under active thyroid, but it is controlled with medication.
Do you have any ideas on what I can do differently (if anything) for my next transfer? Or did I just get unlucky in the numbers game this round?
Thanks so much!
Dear Dr. Sher, five and a half years ago my husband and I conceived naturally in our first cycle. I gave birth to a healthy baby boy 9 month later. Two years after that we tried to have another child, after six cycles my gyn said I should go to a fertility clinic. I was 37 at that time and I had a low amh of 0,33 but regular menstrual cycles. 1,5 years later, with now 39, I am still within this journey. Summary of treatsments:
1) ICSI: Stimulation with Pergoeris 375 IE from day 3 to 10 -> two follices but no egg retrival
2) Natural ICSI few months later: 0,25mg Clomiphene from day 3 to 8 -> one follicel, 10 cell ambry transfer 3 days after punction, negative
3) Next cycle tried yet again with Clomiphene, same plan: more follicel than usual in both ovaries but no growth or even shrinking. After getting off of Clomiphene eventually one follicel did grow but persisted as my fsh and lh levels were high even due estrogen was high too
3) after pausing for few months we started now with a new stimulation cycle with 150 IE Menopur from day 3. As it looks for now just one follicel is growing and the other ones are not or some of them with smaller size disappear.
I am getting really frustarated with my clinic as they just have two possibilities high or “low” dosage of stimulation. I still have reagulary cycles with ovulation, high endometrium line (before ovulation approx. 9-10 mm, 7 days after ovulation approx. 13 mm), and in normal cycles my eggs will grow till approx. 12 mm and then stop to let the dominate follicle to grow further. But with stimulation starting on day3 everything changes and except the dominant follicel others just stop growing or shrink/disappear. I am always downregulating at day 7, never before that. I do not have much eggs and in most cycles 3-4 are visible on day 2.
Dr. Sher, what could be the reason for my body to react like what could be a better stimulation protocol for someone like me? I know that I will not produce many follicels, but I cannot understand why my body just refuses to accept any stimulation drugs.
Thanks in advance!
Best
Hi Dr Sher, I’ve been getting mixed advice from consultants and I’m hoping you can help. I’m 40years old and have one child, conceived with no issues, and have had a number of chemical pregnancy losses. I’m conceiving very easily, almost every cycle I try, but losing each pregnancy soon after a positive pregnancy test. I have had some tests done which showed borderline antiphospholipid syndrome but everything else has come back normal.
One consultant has recommended an endometrial biopsy, and another consultant said this was to check for NK cells which can easily change and so it wasn’t a reliable test, and that the treatment would be Intralipids which is just ‘mayonnaise’! I know that you recommend intralipids so I would love to know your thoughts on this.
Another consultant suggested steroids but was concerned about the increased risk of cleft lip in baby, I wasn’t aware of this risk, is it something to be concerned about and to rule out the use of steroids for RPL?
Finally, the same consultant who felt intralipids offered no help, has prescribed hydroxychloroquine to help with RPL. I have been advised to take this for 3 months before trying to conceive, and when I do start trying to take aspirin until 6 weeks pregnancy, and to begin clexane with pregnancy also.
Would you suggest intralipids alongside the hydroxychloroquine, or is one preferred over the other for RPL?
Many thanks for any advice
B
Just to add some info I forgot with previous question:
– usually no high FSH levels on day 1-5. I had once after the first ICSI treatment an FSH level of 21 on day 3. One dominant follicel grew but the others remained small -> so similar to when starting stimulation treatment on day 3. In this particular menstrual cycle my ovulation was 2-3 days later than usual. Usually my ovulation takes place between day 11-13 of my menstrual cycle. 14 days after ovulation my period starts
– the quality of transferred embryo was B, if that in any case matters
Dear Dr. Sher,
I’m a 38yo physician with very low ovarian reserve ( AMH <0.3, FSH 25, AFC 6-7). I’ve had two successful pregnancies with IUI but desperately want a healthy female embryo.
I just went through my first IVF cycle with estrogen priming, clomid, menopur, follistim and ganirelix and got 3-4 big follicles but then estrogen fell and retrieval was canceled.
I’m very discouraged, but my doctor is still optimistic and wants to try a mini-flare with letrazole and GH next cycle? I read your blog post about protecting follicles from high testosterone and how a flare can get detrimental. Would you suggest the estrogen priming + agonist/antagonist conversion protocol perhaps?
THANK YOU for any advice you can offer!
Hello,
What are your thoughts about using prednisone and/or prograv for a FET with donor eggs?
Good afternoon, I am emailing you because I recently had a failed frozen embryo thaw on the day of my transfer and would like your opinion on what questions to ask in my follow up. A little background about myself. I started ivf at age 41 and will be turning 44 in a month. I was able to bank 3 genetically tested embryos. They were pga tested. The first day 5 5bb did not implant. Today, I was scheduled for my second transfer of my day 6 5bb embryo. I received a phone call from the doctor that not only did my 6 5bb not survive the thaw but my third and last embryo also a 6 day 5bb also did not survive. So I lost two embryos today do to not surviving the thaw. I have a follow up with my doctor on Monday and would like assistance on what follow up question I should ask regarding the my embryos. I’ve spent a lot of money and time on ivf and I would like to do another cycle. I will be turning 44 and I know my chances are slim. In the past I have always done pgta testing but it took me 5 cycles to get 3 “supposed” normal. Do you recommend I advocate for a fresh transfer since I am no older? Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you for your time.
